"So, if I dream I have you, I have you,
For all our joys are but fantastical." ~ John Donne
I think the poem is about his dead wife or something. Still, I'm such a daydreamer that the sentiment is appealing.
P.S. "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" is out on dvd - if you haven't seen this movie already, grab it now! Ponder this with me: If you could erase someone whom you once loved dearly but broke your heart, would you? Is it worth it to give up the good memories as well as the bad ones?